Secret To Make Your Ex Return Your Call
Can you think of ‘magic’ words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls?
It’s hard to believe but there really ARE words that will almost cast a spell and make your ex feel he or she is compelled to return your call.
Pretty neat, don’t you think?
I’m sharing this because this is one of the most frequent questions I hear from the over 35,000 people on my mailing list.
I decided to answer it for everyone …”How do I get my ex to return my phone call, IM or Text Message”
BUT…please be warned.
In the Magic Of Making Up Program, I lay out a complete strategy.
If you use this technique alone, and don’t have an ‘overall’ plan or strategy…you might damage your relationship more than if the call wasn’t returned in the first place.
First…let’s talk about what not to say!
Before we get into the actual words, let’s go over what message almost NEVER works….and worse…Puts you in an AWFUL ‘psychological’ position.
These usually fall into 2 categories.
BEGGING- Where the message sounds like this: “Mark, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you.”
And the EMERGENCY: “Mary, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this.”
Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches, but I’ll bet you’ve tried one of them at one point or another, haven’t you? And I bet they didn’t work either…am I right?
So, I won’t go on and on…
You need to use Curiosity and Self Interest to your advantage.
Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are: *Curiosity & *Self Interest
And here’s the BIG SECRET!
When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work ‘magic’ So… Let’s look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.
In a friendly tone: “Hi Mark. It’s Mary. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for
me. Call me because I want to thank you in person.”
Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?
Mark will NOT be able to resist! “What did I do?” “What does she appreciate?” he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.
Now… Before you call you need to do the “Set Up”…which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate. It can be any small thing…but needs to be plausible.
But more importantly…
2nd WARNING!
Please have an underlying strategy like I lay out in the Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you make your call.
If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly.
Okay?
What I am saying is… What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.
Make sense?
Have a PLAN!== The Magic of Making Up….How to Save Your Relationship and Get your Ex Boyfriend/Girlfriend Back!
